First things first- you have to plan your day. Think about who you are inviting and what you want them to do. Do you know there are kids coming over or is this strictly over-21? What are you all going to eat and drink?
After you plan your day you need to start buying your supplies and inviting the VIP's! After all, they are privileged to be invited to YOUR party!
Now it's down to a deadline. Make all the food, decorations, and favors you can before the big day, and then enjoy the festivities yourself.
Are you looking for some suggestions? Of Course I have some!
Games to Play:
- How well do you know your Independence? quiz http://holidays.quiz.kaboose.com/35-how-much-do-you-know-about-independence-day (Try copying the questions and answer choices and print them off yourself on festive paper so guests can fill in their own answers. Fun idea- the winner gets to hose down the loser of the game!)
- Tug-o-war
- Ultimate Frisbee
- Volleyball- especially Water Balloon Volleyball!
- Balloon Tosses
- Wading Pools
- Side Walk Chalk art
- Everyone Carries the Flag relay (Needed: Buckets of sand and small American flags. Set up the race with two teams. For each team, place a bucket with flags in it (one for each person on the team) on the far side of the yard. On cue, the first person races across to the appropriate bucket and plucks a flag. March the flag back to the team as quickly as possible. NO RUNNING! Tag the next person. The game continues until all have returned to the starting line with a flag. Everyone wins and, if you want, can keep their flags!)
- 3-legged race
- Ring Toss- Use paper plates with holes cut in the middle and wooden dowels. You can paint of cover these to match the holiday if you want to get fancy!
For Food: Think traditional and BBQ!
- Watermelon- see spitting contest to follow? Up to you!
- Corn on the cob
- Hamburgers/ Cheeseburgers
- Hot dogs
- Apple Pie
- Ice Cream
- BBQ chicken
- Don't forget your condiments- pickles, relish, ketchup, and mustard
- Potato salad
- fruit salad
- Strawberry shortcake- this is great as a make-it-yourself dessert!
- Popsicles
For the Little Ones:
- Bubbles are a sure-fire way to get kids laughing and having fun
- Try crosswords for those advanced kids and coloring pages with red, white, and blue crayons for the little ones. Get some great, free print offs at http://holidays.kaboose.com/july4-printables.html.
- Water guns- just make sure everyone is OK with getting caught in the cross-fire. It will happen if you break this out!
- If you plan on blocking off any road ways, make sure to get the necessary permits beforehand.
- Limit the celebration to a few hours to keep up the momentum- try to stay around 2-3 hours.
- Try to get things started late in the afternoon- this will allow for AM parades and will fill the time before the fireworks.
- Try to pick the location close to a firework display planned by the city. Don't try to have your own show- usually ends with a hospital and a big fine. Not a fun way to end the day- for anyone!
- A bonfire is a great way to keep guests warm and have s'mores and roasted marshmallows, especially if it is a little chilly in the evenings.
- Get your music in order- this will tie it all together!
- Freedom, George Michael
- I'm Free, Soup Dragons
- Pink Houses, John Mellencamp
- God Bless the USA, Lee Greenwood
- American Girl, Tom Petty
- America, Neil Diamond
- Me and Bobby McGee, Janis Joplin
- Rockin' in the Free World, Neil Young
- This Land is Your Land, Woody Guthrie
- The Star-Spangled Banner, Jimi Hendrix
- Hand deliver your invitations, especially with your kids. This is a great way to meet your neighbors you don't know well and also increase participation.
- Get creative with your invitations. I loved this particular one I found online. It involves the invited and gets them excited to see all your other clever ideas!

- Materials
- Acrylic Paint
- Craft Sticks
- Permanent Marker
- Ribbon
- Star Stickers
- Instructions
- For each invitation, first coat 8 craft sticks (both sides) with acrylic paints: paint 2 sticks white, 2 red, 2 half blue and half red, and 2 half blue and half white.
- When the paint has dried, arrange the craft sticks as shown to the left, then write your party details on them in permanent marker and add star stickers to the field of blue.
- Tie the sticks in a bundle with a piece of festive ribbon, then hand-deliver the invitations to your guests for them to decipher.

